The reality of having another daughter continues to settle in more and more each day. I hadn't really felt her move much (or at all) until a week or so ago. The day we found out that she's a girl, she really started moving around. Since then, I feel her moving a lot. She rolls and squirms, and the other night I actually felt (on the outside) her kick or punch me. It's the most amazing thing about pregnancy in my opinion. Even as I'm typing this, I can feel her squirming around. Hmmmm....maybe she's hungry since I haven't eaten breakfast yet.
I don't think Keira really "gets it" that there'll be another baby around here in a few months. Shawn and I talk to her about Mommy having a "baby in her belly", and she'll pat my stomach and say "baby", but I don't think she'll understand it completetly for awhile.
Hopefully she won't be too jealous of Reagan. She's (pretty) good with Tyler and so far with Aidan. She has a tendency to be a bit rough with Tyler, but I don't think it's agression. I think she's just being a kid. She doesn't seem to mind when Shawn or I hold either of the other babies, so that's good. Although, it may be a different story all together once the baby is actually living in our home with us and Keira has to share some of our attention with Reagan. My goal is to continue to spend as much time as possible with Keira once Reagan gets here so she doesn't become too jealous or resentful. I'm hoping that she's young enough that it'll just feel normal to her. My plan is to try to involve her as much as I can with caring for Reagan....getting me diapers and so on. I also read somewhere that it might be a good idea to get Keira a present from the baby and give it to her when we bring Reagan home with us. Someone suggested getting her a baby doll (with a bottle, pacifier, stroller, diapers, etc) that she can take care of when Mommy is taking care of the new baby. That might work.
I guess we'll learn as we go. If any of you have any suggestions or words of wisdom, I'm always open and willing to try new things!! Wish us luck!
19 weeks, 3 days to go until my due date!!