
Our day at Grant's Farm was good. There were a total of 8 kids and 5 adults on our trip. Luckily the kids all behaved really well. The weather was so hot, though, that we only stayed for a couple of hours. Then we went to TGI Fridays for lunch before we parted ways for the day. After lunch, Shawn and I hit the bookstores in search of a Hawaii travel guide.
Next year, Shawn will have 2 weeks of vacation. We've decided to plan a trip for next summer. Our dream is to go to Hawaii. We've tossed around the idea of going to California. We've even been invited to join our friends (Kelly, Amber & Bo) on a cruise to Mexico. I'm open to any of those options, but Shawn's heart is really set on Hawaii, and I have to say that, after reading part of our travel guide, it's looking pretty irresistable to me, too. Here's where the dilemma comes in. Keira isn't (and won't be) old enough to do much in Hawaii. That means that Shawn and I wouldn't be able to do some of the fun things we'd like to do, like snorkeling or scuba diving. So, we'd either have to take her with us, and forgo some of the activities we want, or leave her behind. Shawn doesn't seem to have a problem with leaving her with relatives (most likely grandparents). I, on the other hand, get almost physically sick at the thought of leaving my baby (who'll be 15 months old by then) and going so far away.
If we go to California, it'll be easier to do things that she'll be able to do with us. If we go on the cruise with friends, they're planning to bring along their kids, too. So, we'd be able to bring her, have more opportunities to do things that Keira wouldn't be able to do, and we could (possibly) leave her in the care of friends.
Cost is another factor. Hawaii would definitely be the most expensive of the trips. Something that'll be "once in a lifetime". If we chose to do a less expensive vacation, we could use some of the money we'd save and work on finishing our basement, or doing other home improvements. And we could always save our money, and plan a trip to Hawaii when Keira is old enough to come with us and enjoy it.
I always thought vacations were supposed to be relaxing. Who knew planning one could be so stressful!




